I dont want to be gay anymore

I don‘t want to be gay anymore. It sucks. I hate it. Everyone is telling me to „just love myself“ or to just „accept“ myself, but it is not „just“ that easy. I want kids. I want my kids to look like me and be truly mine, I don’t want to adopt because there are no biological options.

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You don’t need to be certain you are gay before talking to someone or attending an LGBTQ+ meeting. People who are questioning their sexual orientation are also welcome.

This is part one of an ongoing series on problematic trends in the church regarding LGBT issues. Many who describe themselves this way — but by no means all — say they are embracing chastity or celibacy and pursuing a relationship with Christ. That is, they believe the historic, biblical Christian sexual ethic, that God created humans male and female, and sexual expression is reserved for the marriage relationship of a husband and wife.

It would be like handing a newborn baby a list of all the things he will have to learn in the next five years: everything from learning to turn over, learning to walk, becoming potty-trained, learning to talk, discovering hes not a part of his mommy, learning how to obey, getting ready to read, going to school. This is the big picture of how to walk out the goal of recovery. Allow us to encourage you to continually ask the Lord, What one thing do You want me to do next?

Religious fundamentalists who believe homosexuality is a matter of choice consider it obvious that gay people can reverse their decisions. The opposite camp argues that gays are "born that.

Scientific research has shown that sexual orientation is not something that can be changed. Several U. There are many people you can safely talk to about your feelings and questions.